Monday 28 April 2008

Oops...Sorry Ajike does not give a Toss!

..Right..am at work at the moment *don't mind me o, no be serious job like that like that o"..lol..but yeah am at work..its kind of Admin and Adhoc duties i do as partime...not bad sha but yeah some more money wouldn't do anyharm...yeah by the way, my appreciation goes to the few fellas that stop by to read my ramblings, very nice of you and u even bother to leave a comment as well ignoring whether 100 people or even none may have commented or not buhahaha!, am i trying to say something?...another tory for another day....., you guys are all sweeties!..Tainx!

Anyways to the koko of this post...ehen, this facebook thing, i may have to agree with my HARD BABE tintin!..lol..... is causing me a lot of distraction, mehn i have to read jare, am going off temp as soon as we get into may, like May isn't here already!!!..lol,different tatafo work, plus the one you don't want to do self,you would sign in and if one of your friends don't put some random, status up that makes you ponder over for a while, especially when u may think it was sending an indirect message to you , they would write some funny thing on other's walls or put up pictures,or even write a note, as in facebook is full of drama or your friend called you up some days before complaining about what A did and blablabla and how they are going to either deal with them or how they won't speak to them, u know how we girls can yarn, and then the next day, they are sulking up on thier walls or they say they don't like someone and they have added them, and your tatafo skills just gets better and better everyday...lol..anyway that aside!

So i signed in today, and my friend, put up a status which said, all her friends are given seven days to pick up thier stuff from her house if they had any, that she was doing spring cleaning otherwise it would be chucked out..err ok, me i have my books, my bible and i may have some other stuffs there still, cos i had stayed at hers one time when i was homeless!...lol..anyways so facebook too is a place to send those kind of messages, ok o, thats interesting..didn't know that though!..lol..we even have a dead line date!..oga o..not a big stuvs,

Ehen i have this new attitude..not sure if its a good thing but its growing and am scared ajike may have no feelings anymore..lol, but these days when it comes to friends, am like whatever!...as in can't be bothered, i mean i care about some so much, they are very dear to me, ild call them family...... i won't say who they are, because they may be reading this, and i don't want anyone going on thier high horses..lol..anyways Ajike is now so confident it's unbelievable, i feel like i have grown up a bit more, i let some things go more than i used to and i move on quickly when it comes to "friends"..as in if they piss me off or do anything that annoys me, i let it slide and push them as far as i can...i don't even feel a thing!..like seriously, i don't even explain to them if they are not in my "you are family group"..maybe i don't give a toss anymore!..in fact too many friends is too much load for me to carry, as in can u imagine ild have to buy birthday presents for them, go for any party they are having, and spend more money, i have to borrow them money when they need...lol.am joking ooooo.....but yeah my family is fine..i mean ild call or text to say hey but mehn that's as far as it goes!!!!

Ok, people, Gosh i have exams in a bizzle...pray for me ok, i need to pass them, i know i will sha, cos i have started studying, so i may not be puting any posts up until after the exams, which would be in June!..."not like u lot are bothered"..well for information sake then..teehee!.....lol...but i won't miss visiting my sweeties to see what they have got going on sha,hope u guys week has been great so far?..has God been faithful like he has to me!..i hope he has!

L8er!!!!!

22 comments:

Nice Anon said...

You will do just fine on your exams. FB has too much drama. I think am one of the very few ppl i know that are not on there.

Ok First!

Chari said...

and I jus had to be second...shish....ehhheeen ajike so u dont care abau friends so that's how our love wants to die abi? weddone....nice one

The phenomenon ur experiencing ryt now is called "Phoenix Phenomenon" we all experience it at some point where u come out of a problem feeling older and stronger...welcome to the club babes

Dreamgirl said...

Hey girl! I know exactly what you mean, but its also important to remember that we don't have change friends when friends change just month iwa fun oniwa and another yoruba one ? Ogun omode p Le sere fun ogun odun!

Appreciate u stopping by too hon, its nice to have comments to moderate!lol

soupasexy said...

hey sweetie, how u be? how old u be sef? u can be my daughter..lol
fb drama is tres much jare. u sound like a facebook stalker..lol
i know am one sha.
anyways, goodluck in ur exams ok..wish me one too..i have them this week and next. take care!

Ms. emmotions said...

first goodluck in ur exams,,
secondly,, frds, how about seeing if u can get the best outa them b4.......
unless of course if they are no use anyhow u consider them...lol

Today's ranting said...
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Today's ranting said...

Good luck to you in your exams. That's life for my sister. Too many friends can be too distracting, sometimes you've got to discard dem excess barggage.

AJIKE said...

nice anon what would i do without you ehn,....u just always stop by thanx hun!


Chairman Charizard..hmm the sexy man himself....you know u would always be one of the fam come rain come sunshine!..lol...thanx for bringing me on board!

Dreamgirl...thanks for the owe o!..well noted hun...thanx for stoping by honey!!

My new mummy soupa...yes o i am a stalker....lol...

All the best in ure exams..and you know u would do your daughter proud!!..teeheee.

Thank you my darling emotions....
I have tried with all these friends and can't be asked..as in really!!!!!...thanx hun 4 stoping by o
xxx

Unknown said...

Goodluck with the exams, but make sure your face abi it's name is not too far from here..lol...

oh, actually just joined facebook, and still not that much into it...i'll stalk bloggsville anyday before i sit down with facebook...

Style Stalker said...

Hehhhe! I left facebook too......too much work on my plate, and the chat thing makes it even more addictive.

All the best with your exams honey! Bet you'll do great, by God's grace.

Nice Anon said...

lol.. no yawa sweets

The Activist said...

Ajike (Sweet Oriki-Praise name). I once visited your blog but you just started then...

I promise to be back and leave my comments on some of your post....

Jennifer A. said...

May you come out on TOP after ur examinations...

:)

AJIKE said...

@ s.chic. thanks o, ild work hard and let u on my success..how r u by the way?....
haaaa babes, you would soon be hooked trust me, except u are not one of those oniranu *jobless* people like us....what am i even saying...u would be hooked jo!

The perfectionist..omo to dun!...howdy sweetie?....that facebook ehn, i could be on it for hours and time just keeps flying, so am in rehab as well apart from studying for exams....Amen o..i have no choice

@ nice anon....kisses!!!!....

@ standtall..u better be back hun..u better!!!...and yes i love my oriki..took it after my mumz, but most people don't call me that though!

@ Jaycee....Amen o!....i claim success hun!..thanx so much for stopping by!!!

Tinu said...

mehn 'friends'...me i know all about friends!! i use to have sooooooooo many!!! all for what??? at the end of the day no one gives a hott about you!! its just u and UR GOD~~~
anyways goodluck with ur exams!! i'm praying for u ohh!!

pss...i'm going to naija!

aloted said...

awww...thanks for stopping by...and i see u've added me to your list of blog read..am i touched or what..lol.

anyway to ur post- i think am sort of a facebook addict..but an healthy one i think...lol

about friends..i guess as we grow older the number of friends (as in real friends) we have reduce...and yah sometimes friends can get on ur nerves but wat can we do without them....

anyway let me go read some more :)

Flourishing Florida said...

hmmm. hating on fb? does dat make sense? if u have beef wit someone, y not just send dem a private email. daz y i find female friendship tricky. things get messy too quicky too soon. not really heavy on friendship. i have acquaintances. cos am really one 4 moving on. if u hurt me, i might not tell u 'u've messed up big time', i'd just give u ur space. another thing am not good at is carrying friends over. some pple keep tab on friends 4rm their elementary sch! like, geez

Unknown said...

I waz here

Unknown said...

1st,all the best in ur exams.
2nd,this facebook thing,i doubt i'll ever grab it cuz its so jam-packed.from day 1,i didn't like it.
3,it is better to have 1 to 3 friends u trust,who know you and support u in all u do than having too many.besides too many friends,is serious distraction.my first time here.like ur posts

Fausset said...

am not so hyped abt fb and fb chat, thankgudness, i think my new addiction is blogging. Abt friends, i let things go but when it becomes a repetition i try my hardest to avoid, i think growing up aNd maturing has sumthing to do with it too...

Jay said...

Girl i am back, just had to tag your fine self